Who is Mr Nathaniel Ohiozoje Evborein?
In all honesty, this is someone I have never met before except through Social media and all I know about him, I either learnt from him or his social media page aka Facebook.
I had made a sarcastic post like I normally do on my page Here once in a while, just to make people laugh and feel good about themself. Everyone that has been following me for year know that I am mostly Sarcastic but because I had use reverse psychology in that post, it attracted a lot of male comments, it reached 70k people before it got to Mr Nathaniel wall but before then I had locked my comments section so it was just the views and reaction getting in.
After a while, A facebook user sent me a DM to Open the comment section because she personally recognized someone and wanted to reply the person, so I did. She replied the person and told me she was done but because of my busy schedule I forgot to lock the comment section back till I started getting comment notifications on the said post, I opened the post and I started replying the ones I could reply.
I got to Mr Nathaniel comment and his comment was "with this your funny Hernia shape" and I paused because I know women suffer from Hernia the most which makes their tummy protrude especially after having babies. I took a look at my stomach and I can see I have a normal sized tummy so where did he see Hernia shape on me. I took a step to his page and saw that he in fact was the one with a Hernia shape stomach so I replied him with
"you shoudn't be the one talking about someone's shape when you look like this. How does it feel looking down and you can't see your small peniz from where you are standing? Look at the mirror next time before opening your mouth"
I attached his picture to the said comment, reply others, locked my comment section and went to sleep.
By the time I woke up and picked my phone to scroll through social media, I already met not only his message in my DM(messenger)
"What is wrong with that shape? Those that manage to fuck you don't compare.. You are so deluded..if you really are confident of who you are, you shouldn't be limiting the comments... Open the comments and let me roast you..Ugly mama" "Go and work on your shape, and stop flaunting your Rhinoceros waist for people to see...worwor woman"
He has also extended his hands to another of my post entirely saying
"Miss 'Horse', I mean princess Horpsy, compare all your customers, past and present with the guy on the left... Make Ogun knack you down" while posting a picture of himself that he took with 2 of his colleagues.
I was surprised because who jumps up on down on a stranger's post looking for attention that much, like guy I don't even know you. Not only have you called me ugly, you called me a Horse, deluded, Rhinoceros waist, asking me to compare you with my customers then asking me to work on my shape all in one night. I replied him
"Damn, you 8 yourself this much that you are looking for validation from a complete stranger. I can't compare please, I have never been with men that have their stomach covering their peniz. God forbid. seriously, you wife and kids love you just the way you are. I reject you in 100 folds"
He then replied me again
"Must you talk? you are the only looking for validation...You are a nobody with bent waist..we should be expecting humility from you...you will never get a man that will settle with and for you...You are a toy...last minute toy to any man..I wanted to teach you a lesson, never to go ton a man's profile to pick pictures...Your inferiority complex and bad manners is not helping your cause...Just hide and lay low...You are the one trying to gain validation and attention here..I already disliked you from the beginning...you are a struggling Olosho...Go and live your life and leave decent people alone...shoooo"
I was dumbfounded.
Struggling Olosho how? I have never introduced myself as an Olosho neither has this man asked what I do for a living and immediately I was triggered because men like him are used to shaming women for having sex but never takes accountability for their actions. If he had the time to not only drop me a DM, he would also have the time to reply message.
So I drop him a special post here replying his DM messages with his picture especially since he told me to watch my weight and he does look like someone that needed the advice more than I do plus he said He wants to teach me a lesson and I take that as a threat to life. Incase I go missing, people know where to find me.
If you look inside the comment section, You would see where he made a lot of promises to lay curses on me, to make sure I won't ever get married, that he has taken snapshot of my pictures and comment and will send to thatmediagirl01 to be called out threatening to deal with me.
He called me Olosho severally, said men are not safe with me, and I will be used and dumped, said I have been infected with sexual diseases, I am poor and raised in poverty, rhinoceros waist,
He didn't stop with me, for everyone that tried to call him to order, he insulted them severally both male and female, called some bastard, olosho for credit and shawama, cheap harlot, bloody dimwit, dumbass, omo ekpe, he even went to friend's page, took her picture of when she was pregnant and posted it to shame her. 'A pregnant woman' just because she was trying to correct him. Who score points with a woman body change in pregnancy? Only Koromoto men.
With my post, I have had few women come out to say that's his modus operandi, he goes to female comment section just to insult them just because he doesn't agree with their post. That's a sick person behavior if you ask me.
I am a Yoruba woman and where I come from, intimidation doesn't work for us and that's why our parents endeavor to equip us with both education, skills and whatever we need to survive this life so that when male are talking, we would also be able to contribute from our experiences. I am very sure not every woman is as advantaged as us and male from their tribe always look down on them and treat them less than human, that is why you don't pass your boundaries if you don't know what you may meet on the other side.
Mr Nathaniel is not only an elderly man, he is a married man with 4 daughters that he invests in, prays to outshine him and live a good life but he didn't hesitate to call someone's daughter a Olosho. I wonder how he would react if his daughter reports to him that someone his age calls her a Olosho unprovoked. Would he protect outsider or protect his daughters? That's what we are all suppose to ask him as a father of girl with such bad behavior.
My father is not online to fight for me but I promise you, I am equipped with everything I need to fight for myself and if he ever hear this, he will stand up and give me and ovation because I am not a bastard Yoruba woman.
#hermotherdaughter
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