Me and Church boy.

 What happened between me and this man. 

I can't remember his name as we didn't spend up to a week knowing ourselves. He had invited me to church that Sunday and our plan was that after church, we would meet together in the evening as he had said he wanted to join my evening walk so we can know ourselves better while on an activity.

It sounded like a nice plan, so I met him in Church. The service went well and we were also anticipating seeing each other physically during the service. After the service, he said he had somewhere else to go and he would like me to follow him as it would be fun and we would come back for our walk in the evening.

I initially refused but he kept teasing me and promising it would be fun, so I followed this stranger in excitement to where I did not plan nor know about. The house turned studio was far from the main road and inside all this abandoned houses that the will name 'close' in Nigeria.

I was the only woman in that house as at when I got there but I wasn't scared though because that's not my first time in such situation and i love taking risks like that. 😍 He already told me that there would be lunch but as usual, there is nothing.

After about an hour, he said he was stepping out with one of the guys, he wont be long and he would get me food on his way back. The was light so I held on to his promise and was watching TV. After a while, a girl came to join me. She was the one that was suppose to anchor the program or whatever.

Now I have been waiting for about 3 hours now, no food, nothing. I know I should have stand up to find my way but I was using the period to charge my phone as light wasnt stable in my home.

He came back sweating and apologizing while giving me bread because 'he didn't see food to buy'. Before you say, its the thought that count, I am not a fan of bread, It is not something I appreciate and it felt like an insult.

How would I be waiting for 3 hours and you present me bread as lunch.

This is almost 4pm and I had told this man earlier that I start my walk by 4pm and I would like to take my leave as to go prepare for my walk and freshening up. He started begging me to stay that they would soon be done and I kept saying No that I wanted to leave, he went to call everyone that I am angry and want to leave so they should beg me to stay after telling him the reason why I wanted to leave.

Now, this is embarrassing so I had to stay for what was never my business. He later got me food but I was tired and angry and my mood was completely off. There and then, I decided that we would never meet again, not even by mistake.

I got home around 6.30pm, with a completely wasted day, regret, tired and pissed. I learnt once again never to bend for men nor change my schedule based on emotions.

He reached out to me to apologize but we ended up blocking each other and that is the end of a relationship that never started.

Short man.

Song for the day: Raindrops by Tuface.

#hermothersdaughter #princesshorpsy

A SINGLE LADY AT 28 (WHY)

 My name is Opeyemi but I would love to be addressed as Princess Horpsy, I am 28 years old and I am single Nigerian girl. That sounds Pathetic to an average Nigerian parent and they make it feels like a disease 😟😞 but not where I am because I don't subscribe to disrespect.

My mum got married at 28 and ever since I came of age, one of her prayers have been me getting married before 28 years, I also wish to marry early to be truthful because I love the marriage institution, I have always dream of someone sweeping me off my feet and twirl me like a baby girl.

I have meet a lot of men in these few years i have lived, I know a lot of love songs at the tip of my fingers, No, I don't attend weddings because of my being Introverted, the Irony right? Whenever I get the chance to attend any function I am the life of the party like Simi in one of her songs ORIGINAL BABY

                         ' I NO DEY TURN UP BUT I AM THE LIFE OF THE PARTY'

I have a lot of love in me to give and no my case is not the one of meeting the wrong men, I have 70% met right men in my life, the remaining 30% didn't even go far with me because I select those who I share my time and space with but for a reason it just couldn't work out. 

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I don't have a reason at the tip of my fingers on why it end up not working out but I will go with the Nigerian 'Its not the will of God' or the popular 'Its not me, Its them' line.

I know I have a lot of work to do on my self, maybe my dressing, my environment, reduce my free spirit attitude, go out more and meet new people, attend functions and all but the more I try to change those things, the more tiring it is because I am used to a particular life style and old habits they say die hard. 

I am used to being on my phone 24/7 and even typing this on my laptop feels like a punishment because of the time away from my phone even though its beside me. I love being by myself, chatting with friends and when I am hungry I stroll inside my fridge and find something to munch. I love shopping too especially for groceries, outfit shopping is not for me, I hardly get it right. 

I don't like cooking, I only do that for survival. I find cooking VERY stressful. My house is in a mess too because Its stressful cleaning every time. I also don't allow people visit me even though I live alone. I like my space and I am mostly in my birthday suit. Having people around and looking for cover ups is such an inconvenient.

I recently joined dating site this year because I am looking for someone with a missing ribs that can find me and that will be story for another blog titled 'DATING SITES' . Its been over 2 months and all i can say for now is that it has its pro and con.

I am a very beautiful, smart and intelligent girl with a degree in Banking and Finance, a diploma in fashion, a lot of certifications in health industry, digital marketing, managing a YouTube page of mine and I would really love to blow my horns but I will keep it low for now and I promise you will know more as times go on. 

I love listening to music but I would go really cranky if I don't see a movie in a week. I spend my time eating outs, on the beach and any where there is fun and food. I laugh a LOT, Its a family thing. 😎.

I also enjoy making people laugh, its a me thing. I cannot function where there is no fun and as I am typing thing I am shaking body to 'F you by Kizz Daniel' 

Kizz Daniel is one of my celebrity crush and I have a lot of crush which I would be sharing later on this Page.

I am not the type to give up on love, would never subscribe to that. I know someone is somewhere looking for me and he would all worth the wait.

I would stop here till my next Blog, I hope you would find it interesting and always come back for new notes from me.

I love you.

Drop a comment If you are also in the same shoe as mine, I will love to read from you.