I SHARED MY PLATE OF FOOD ON OUR FIRST DATE.

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 This might have happened two years ago but it is still fresh in my memory because it is the first and one of its kind. Have you ever had a weird first date experience? Please share in the comment box down this blog. I have had a lot of weird first date experience and I hope to share them because these experience also made me pause going on date for a while. I believed I was haunted at that period. 

I have actually resumed going on dates now because I am not getting younger and I love meeting new people. 

 Like I mentioned in one of my blogs that I love shopping, on this day I had gone shopping for groceries in my white 'Zaddy's girl' top and a blue jeans plus a black sneakers and a red handbag. I remembered I wanted to get movie ticket when someone ran towards me. 

'He was like my Oga said I should give you this number and you should call him when you are done'

One of the things I hate is someone approaching me on behalf of another that wants my attention, I see it as a disrespect on my person. If you are not cripple, why can't you approach the woman you like in person. I was very pissed so I told the man to tell go tell his boss to come by himself else before I collect any number.

He ran back to his boss and in like 30secs, the boss showed up and he was like 'you look like you would be tough but I like that'. I smiled and told him how I find what he did disrespectful. He went further by saying he was with his child and wouldn't want her witnessing him talking to another woman on their daddy daughter date. It made me blush though because I love me a responsible parent plus he complimented my dressing and that why I can still remember what I wore till date.

We exchanged number and we started chatting via whatsapp till we were able to fix a lunch date and he specifically asked me to dress to our date the same way he saw me dress. I actually did not read meaning to it till after the date. I was just happy to go on our lunch date.

On the said date, I was to come to his office first then we would go have lunch at anywhere of his choice, He is a lawyer so I understand. I will add here that while i was waiting for him to round of we had a chit chat about his life/ child. He wasn't married and the child live with her mother while he take care of her bills and spend time together during holiday.

I was a heavy eater as at then, I eat till I don't have space and when I discover my stomach is slightly going empty I always fill it up. We got to the restaurant to have lunch and the first he was telling me is how ladies line up there at night to find customers. I was very irritated but I just smiled it off so I can eat my food and go home. 

When the order list arrived, I went through it and he told me to make an order for anything I like while going through his own pamphlet. I thought to myself to try out the fisherman soup on the menu and semovita because I have never had that soup before. I told him my decision and he was like 'thank God we would share the soup' my brow raised up like HELLO, WHO GOES THERE. 

I told him I am not cool with that and he said if I knew how much the soup was in quantity, i would appreciate this gesture as I would not be able to finish it. I told him it doesn't matter if I would finish it or not as this was my order. Who finishes food at a restaurant in the first place, I meeeeeaaan 🙅

The food got ready and he asked that wheat should be prepared for him with no soup. Immediately I was served my food, I washed my hands and started eating 'as e dey hot' while he kept looking at me. That soup had all protein that will do my body good as it was so painful that I had to share. I ate what I could and passed the remaining to him and he said i didn't do good as i would have waited for his food to arrive before I started eating or better still I should have wait for extra plate so I could serve him instead of remaining the soup for him.

I even thought he was angry and wouldn't eat again so I can finish my food in peace but he dipped his hand and started swallowing. I guess that's how I failed the wife material test because I didn't wait for him to be ready before I started eating or offer to serve him separately.

I got home and gisted my boyfriend and he made jest of me on how me and my date cant afford separate meal.

Its fine though, there would be no such humiliation again.

Thanks for reading.

I love you.

Share your weird first date experiences with me.